LESSONS  I  LEARNT  IN  YEAR  2014

I welcome Year 2015 with all my heart and want to thank Year 2014 for giving me lovely lessons of life. I am really thankful to all those people who were part of this year and who remained with me in spite of all the good and bad things that have occurred with me during the year. I want to thank all those people who inspired me, who loved me, who cared for me and most important who accepted me “AS ME”.

Here are wonderful lessons Year 2014 has taught me

1)  WORK IS WORSHIP BUT NOT AT THE COST OF YOUR SELF RESPECT.

2)  NOBODY CAN USE YOU UNTIL AND UNLESS YOU ALLOW THEM TO USE YOU.

3)  I FALL IN LOVE WITH THESE TWO WORDS “TRUTH” AND ‘TRUST”, AND I WANT THIS LOVE LAST WITH ME TILL LAST BREATH OF MY LIFE.

4)  IF THERE IS SOMETHING BAD HAPPENING WITH YOU , THERE IS SOMETHING VERY BEST {NOT EVEN GOOD} IS  GETTING READY FOR YOU AND CURRENTLY  SAYING YOU SILENTLY ,”HEY DEAR , HAVE PATIENCE AND JUST WAIT , I AM COMING SOON”.

5)  WORD FRIENDSHIP IS TOTALLY REDEFINED IN MY LIFE.

6)  IF YOU ARE GOOD THEN, GOOD WILL DEFINITELY COME BACK TO YOU.

7)  I AM ALWAYS IN SEARCH OF MY OWN SELF, BUT DURING THE YEAR DISCOVERY OF MY OWN SELF HAS GOT A TOTAL NEW DIRECTION.

8)  I AM IN TOTAL SUPPORT ONE’S OWN INDIVIDUALITY, BUT THIS YEAR HAS GIVEN ME A NEW MEANING AND UNDERSTANDING OF THE WORD INDIVIDUALITY. 

9)  NEVER EVER LEAVE YOUR FRIENDS WHEN THEY ARE IN PAIN OR WHEN THEY ARE SUFFERING, AS SAME CAN HAPPEN WITH YOU TOO. THANKS MY DEAR BUDDIES FOR ALWAYS BEING THERE, YOU ALL ARE ALWAYS THERE WHEN I NEED YOU IN ANY SITUATION OF MY LIFE WHETHER IT’S PAIN OR GAIN.{THIS LESSON I LEARNT FEW YEARS BACK , BUT I SEE ITS APPLICATION EVERY YEAR IN DIFFERENT WAYS}

10) I REALLY DON’T KNOW WHETHER GOD EXIST OR NOT, BUT I STRONGLY BELIEVE THAT DON’T SEARCH ANYWHERE GOD, JUST SEE YOUR PARENTS YOU WILL FIND HIM.

11) SOMEBODY  TOLD ME ALWAYS ASK RIGHT QUESTION , AND  MAKE A HABIT OF QUESTIONING RIGHT QUESTION , THEN ONLY YOU WILL GET RIGHT ANSWER.

IN SHORT

“RIGHT QUESTION, RIGHT ANSWER

         WRONG QUESTION, WRONG ANSWER.”

12) FOR EVERY SITUATION AND ITS RESULTS THERE ARE ALWAYS SOME REASONS AND CAUSES, TRY TO FIND OUT REAL REASONS AND TRY TO RESOLVE THEM.

13)  NEVER EVER LEAVE ANY SITUATION IN DOUBT, KEEP CLARITY IN EACH AND EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE.

14) LIVE EVERY MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE AS A COMPLETE MOMENT , “ZINDAGI KA HAR LAMHA AISE JEEYO KI HAR LAMHA APNE AAP MEIN MUKKAMAL HO JAYE”.

15) ALWAYS WELCOME ANY CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE, AS YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT’S THERE IN YOUR SURPRISE BOX.

16) THERE MAY BE SOME RELATIONS IN YOUR LIFE , WHICH CANNOT BE DESCRIBED IN WORDS AND NO DEFINITION OR NAME CAN BE GIVEN TO THESE RELATIONS AND THESE RELATIONS ARE BEST RELATIONS OF YOUR LIFE.

17) ALWAYS RESPECT WHAT YOU HAVE, SEE YOURSELF DAILY AND YOU WILL FIND THAT YOU ARE REALLY BLESSED.

18) EVERY ONE OF US REQUIRES SOME PERSONAL SPACE, NO MATTER HOW MUCH WE ARE ATTACHED WITH EACH OTHER. ALWAYS RESPECT PERSONAL SPACE OF YOUR OWN AND OF OTHER PERSON. ALWAYS RESPECT PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN ANY TWO PERSON; YOU CAN NEVER UNDERSTAND DEEPNESS OF ANY RELATION IF YOU ARE NOT INTO THAT RELATION. SO BEFORE COMMENTING,”JUST THINK TWICE”.

19) REAL TRUTH OF ANY SITUATION IS ONLY KNOWN TO THE PERSONS INVOLVED IN THAT SITUATION/CONVERSATION, “SUNI SUNAI BAATEIN SAB UDTI HAWA RAHTI HAI”.

20) THE PERSON WHO IS VERY POLITE IS MOST DANGEROUS PERSON AND PERSON WHO IS STRAIGHTFORWARD TO YOU IS YOUR BEST FRIEND PHIR CHAHE WO TUMHARE MUH PAR GALI KYUN NAA BAK DE. BUT ULTIMATELY IT’S YOUR CHOICE.

21) ALWAYS KEEP YOUR GOOD QUALITIES WITH YOURSELF. AS YOUR GOOD QUALITIES ARE ONLY ASSETS WHICH NOBODY CAN STEAL FROM YOU AND YOUR QUALITIES DEFINE YOUR CHARACTER AND MAKES YOU REALIZE IMPORTANCE OF YOUR OWN IN YOUR EYES AND IN YOUR LIFE AND IF SOMEBODY DISRESPECT THIS THEN ITS HIS CHARACTER.

22)  TRY TO GIVE YOUR BEST IN YOUR WORK, YOUR RELATIONS, TO YOUR OWN SELF.  THIS SATISFACTION YOU CANNOT BUY FROM MONEY AND NOBODY CAN STEAL THIS SATISFACTION FROM YOU. IF IN LIFE SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS, THEN ONLY THIS SATISFACTION WILL BRING YOU PEACE.

23) YEAR 2014 WAS A FANTASTIC YEAR, I LEARNT ABOUT MY PROFESSION, ABOUT MEANING OF LIFE, ABOUT PEOPLE, ABOUT RELATIONS AND MOST IMPORTANT I LEARNT MORE ABOUT ME.

24) LAST BUT NOT LEAST “ZINDAGI SACH MEIN BAHUT KHOOBSURAT HAI , ISKI KEEMAT USSE POOCHO JO JEENA CHAHTA HO  PAR USKE PAAS  ZINDAGI NAA BACHI HO.”

  SOME OF THESE LESSONS I LEARNT AND FOLLOWING THEM, SOME IN WORK IN PROCESS.AND I WANT TO LEARN MORE ,MORE AND MORE FROM COMING YEARS OF MY LIFE.